Getting someone back and Karma. This. This here is the true difference between girls and women. The idea that “getting someone back” will actually make you feel better and hurting someone else is, simply put, immature and ignorant. See, you won’t get anyone back by using your energy and personal effort. First off, when someone does something to you bad enough to bother you enough to seek revenge, I am confident that dickface is totally looking for you to react to their dickfacery. By getting all reactive and responsive to them, you have in fact given them pleasure, not pain. The idea of getting someone back is so counterproductive it is asinine because the negative energy it takes to put towards getting someone back will hurt you more than it actually hurts them. Period. I touched on this last week in a post I wrote about divorce. Hanging on to negative feelings/hate/anger or seeking revenge is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. You do know stress, anger and hate will kill you right? That shit is dangerous and will act like a terminal illness inside of your body and mind. Hate, anger and seeking revenge are viral emotions and acts that will consume anything positive and good and turn everything dark and ugly. I know this idea can be very difficult for some. Some may say easier said than done. I suggest you get control of your crazy ass and instead of acting like a child, try acting like a grown ass woman. I learned over the years just how incredible this little thing called Karma is. Karma is what will eventually do what you want to get done. I know we all hear about karma but do we know what it is? Listen up, students. Class is in session. Basically, Karma is the force created by a person’s actions that some people believe causes good or bad things to happen to that person. This is not wishing bad on people. No way, no how. That is not how I roll. Here is a little example of Karma. That girl who tormented you all through grade school and high school? Yeah, you will bump into her at your high school reunion and my oh my did Karma get her good. Karma is cool like that. Karma is something so incredibly powerful and organically reactive you need to do nothing other than brush off the bullshit, walk away, and continue being a good person. Say nothing, do nothing other than allow Karma to observe and do your “dirty work”. And let me make one point again because it is brilliant. There is nothing, NOTHING that will piss off a douchebag or bitch more than getting absolutely no reaction from you. Let them act a fool. Be “gone with the wind fabulous” and allow our very loyal, very powerful friend, Karma, to do what needs to be done with all of those who deserve bad because bad is exactly what they did and good to all who do good. Like Lauren likes to say, “Payback is a bitch and so is Karma.” Carry on, ladies. Let the girls play and the assholes pray that Karma is kinder to them than they were to you.
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