Oh, MLK. You sure were a bright light and wise ass man.
Hate. It’s viral. That shit is so contagious it can spread its filthy little self like the clap! The negative energy hate takes is gross and catastrophic – not to the person/thing you are hating but to you. Exuding hate is masochistic. I mean, when you use your energy to hate what ends up happening is you end up hurting yourself, not them. Ever hear the phrase, “Hating someone is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die”? Precisely my point. That ugly shit casts its darkness on you and causes terrible side effects. Feelings of anxiety, unease, anger, depression, fatigue, obsessive thoughts… to name a few. And when you hate, your energy becomes tainted and people around you can feel it and we as humans are big ass sponges. We absorb other peoples energy and that can really suck. Ever live with someone who has shit energy and hates for a part time job? I bet ten bucks your energy eventually turned into kaka too especially when you were around them. Value yourself and your desire to live a positive, healthy life. Those two things go hand in hand. Positivity and love breeds health and happiness. Negativity and hate kills it.
And I get it, we are human. I am no Mother frigging Teresa. I am sure even she met a few jagbags she wanted to punch in the nutsac but chose to love not hate because she was interested in feeling good and sharing good (selfish little Saint). It is ok to dislike someone. A lot. It is ok to not want to be friends with everyone. Oh, and since I brought that up, feeling the need to have a million friends and know and like everyone is a big ol’ bag of crap. Quality over quantity, people, especially when it comes to friendships and diamonds. Not everyone is your friend, don’t be naive to that. Ok. Sorry. Moving forward. It is ok to have your own values and beliefs. It is ok to get pissed off when someone has done did you wrong. What is not ok is when your dislike for someone or something evolves into darkness. You become a carrier of a viral and destructive weapon. Hate. Also, when someone else’s dark heart spreads to yours, and it takes over your mood or day, you have the problem, not them. I mean, think about it, people. A lot of times people do things and say things with one goal in mind. To piss us the fuck off. Getting the best of us is exactly what they want. Guess what? You not reacting to their BS frigging pisses them the fuck off. Yep. Really chaps their hide. I know this from experience and it’s awesome. It may be a difficult thing to do in the beginning, not reacting to their nonsense, but after a while it becomes second nature and you, my friends, will be feeling like the champion in this silly little game of bullshit. I know how I feel when I have allowed someone to get the best of me. I feel like an anxious, pissed off butthole. Their horrible energy done and ruined my energy and my day. That is how they know they have done good work, by your reaction. They want to ruin your day. Why? Because they suck and they are trying to suck the goodness out of you and your day. You need to regain the control and power here. Don’t give a rat’s ass and dismiss their attempts to corrupt your energy. And hating or pissing you off are not always things people are trying to do to you purposefully. Sometimes people are just annoying and dumb. They aren’t trying to make you react to anything or ruin your day. You just can’t control yourself and are used to reacting like a grown ass child. Because you can’t stand them or their stance on something your reaction to them is hate/anger. What a dumdum you are. Control your damn self. We have NO control over how people act or what they do or say to us but we DO have control over is how we react to them.
Now, do me a solid and think about how powerful love is. Think about how you feel when you are surrounded by love. Think about how it feels when you exude love and happiness, how positive and bright your days are. Well, hate is as strong of an emotion as love but just exactly the opposite. It is some powerful dark ass shit. STAY AWAY FROM IT. And for the record, beautiful, happy, positive people don’t waste their time hating. They just don’t. People who value positivity and happiness rise above the darkness and do not value wasting their time and energy.
Believe you, me. I have met a few really unloveable sons of bitches in my day. It can be REALLY difficult to not hate them but in the end we all now know what doing that does… bad stuff. So, I say? Protect your damn selves. Protect your energy from hate and negativity the way you protect your vagina from the nasty stuff. Make it a priority. Turn your back and mind to negative energy and hate and allow yourself to have the power to live a positive and healthy life. Spread love not hate. They are both equally as viral and equally as powerful. Word.